Tuesday, December 02, 2008

Cadence's story

Saturday was a pretty normal day for us. We did some laundry, knowing that the baby would be here soon and chances were good it would be a few days before there was a chance to do any. I attended a candle party that my friend Amanda hosted and Emily was the consultant for and then I met Josh at church for 5pm mass.  After mass we decided to go out to dinner, Chipotle, it was good.  As I was pulling in and parking the man next to me opened his door right into my door, I was already in park so he should have seen me there, it wasn't like I pulled in to his opening door. Anyway, it looked bad at first which made me really crabby, but most of it just rubbed off so I let it go.  I haven't had time to inspect it in the light yet.

After dinner we went home and just hung out. I lit my ginger pumpkin aroma melt courtesy of party lite, it was fabulous.  We put Coen to bed around 9 and I wasted some time and went to bed around 9:45.  As I was laying down I had a contraction, nothing too intense, but the most intense one I had had all pregnancy.  It only lasted 20 seconds or so, so I brushed it off.  Josh came and tucked me in, I told him that we should have a plan in case she decided to come that evening.  As we were talking about bringing Coen to Kendrick and Lindsey's I had another contraction.  Satisfied with our plan Josh kissed me good night and went downstairs to watch a movie. 

 I was in bed for about 3 more minutes before I had another contraction.  Again nothing strong but 3 in a row got me a little excited.  I was no where near the rule of 1 minute every 5 minutes for 1 hour, but I was still excited.  Then I heard/felt a pop in my stomach. At first I thought it was some gas moving around, but then I remembered that your water breaking can feel like a pop and I thought about it for a few seconds, decided that I really didn't think it felt like gas or my stomach so I sat up, climbed out of bed and goosh, I was soaked.  My water definitely broke.  I called down to Josh and he instantly knew that it was time!  We called Kendrick and Lindsey and the hospital, dropped off Coen and headed to Unity.  My contractions were every 2 minutes, but only lasting 30 seconds.  We got to the hospital and it took about an hour to get the paper work done and monitors on.  The contractions were getting a little stronger each time.  We were finally left alone so we popped in What Happens in Vegas.  We got about half hour into it and I was in pain.  The contractions were so much stronger and were still every 2 minutes.  

I got an IV and got some fentanyl, and slept for half an hour.  Fentanyl is suppose to work for 2 hours but after a half hour I was no longer feeling the effects, it was at this time that I decided to get an epidural.  I didn't think I would need one but this labor was so much different than Coen's, much more intense and no time to relax between contractions.  It took about 20 minutes before the anesthesiologist put the epidural in, that was a hard 20 minutes, but the epidural went well and really helped me progress fast.  Soon I was feeling the pressure that signals pushing time. I was checked and was at an 8.  One more contraction came and I told her I would need to push soon, she checked me again and I was a 10.  They quick changed my bed to a birthing bed, called the on call doctor because my doctor was not quite there. Changing positions relieved some pressure so I was able to hold off pushing for a few contractions.  My doctor (who wasn't actually my doctor cause she was on vacation in California) walked in the room, put on a gown and gloves I pushed twice and we had our baby girl!!!  5.5 hours of labor, an epidural, and 2 pushes, overall I would say it went really well.

We left the hospital yesterday went out to Perkins on the way home.  We got all unpacked, Josh cleaned the house and while he was washing dishes the power went out.  We went and picked up Coen at 4, hung out at home until 4:30/4:45 still no power, so we went to my parents so we wouldn't have to sit in our cold dark apartment.  Around 6 the power came back on, we left my parents around 7:45 and came home once again.  It was nice to be home in my own bed, even though I really didn't spend much time there last night.  Coen slept all night in his bed though, so that was nice.  

Coen is adjusting well, he insisted on holding Cadence last night and reading Elmo to her, it was really cute.  This morning he rushed downstairs to see her, he is very interested and likes to help out by carrying things for her and us.

If I ever make it upstairs to my computer I will try to post some pictures.

Sunday, November 23, 2008

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

The waiting game

Well it looks like this baby has a very good chance of being born in December. I made a special trip to the doctors today in hopes that I was at a point to be induced, however I am not and the doctor really has no good reason to induce me. I totally understand and don't really want to be induced, especially since I'm not favorable and run a higher chance then of having complications and needing a C-section. It would be nice to have next week home with the baby for recovery and bonding and to have some extra time before Brittany's wedding to get a dress and shape up a little but it looks like I will get the whole week to myself instead.
So I am going to just keep going, hoping that the baby decides to come soon on her own. My doctor will be out of town from Tuesday-Sunday but then Monday (December 1) she said she would induce me. I will be just over 40 weeks and should be much more favorable to be induced.

So for now we will just wait and see and hope that she decides to come soon on her own.

Sunday, November 09, 2008

No baby yet

Well I was really hoping to have the baby this weekend, but that doesn't seem like much of a possibility any more. At first it was wishful thinking but when my doctor told me things were progressing and she wasn't going out of town this weekend I became a little more hopeful. Oh well. This week really wouldn't be ideal to have a baby, since I have patients every day. I was planning on still seeing a couple of them if I had the baby over the weekend because they are for competencies but if I have the baby now, there wouldn't really be much time to get out of the hospital to see them. So whatever, its up to the baby now. I have another appointment on Friday and she will try to get labor going again for me (she actually did this past Friday too, which was surprising). However, I can't go into labor immediately after my appointment, I have to wait until after my candle party.

I am hoping that people come, only a couple of RSVPs so far. I would love free stuff if people buy things but I am more concerned that this party will count as one for Emily. I think enough people will come and buy things that it will work out ok. Emily's party today was really successful so I have high hopes for mine.

It seems so crazy still that any day now we will have two kids. With Coen I was very ready to have a baby in the house, this time around I am just ready to have the baby out of me. I haven't given much thought to actually having a baby in the house. Hopefully everything comes back to me. I figure I'll have some time off to catch up on reading and stuff so that will have to be sufficient. Today I spent a good portion of the day cleaning and "nesting". I finished getting the baby's room ready, put up the mobile, took out some baby toys, made a pile of things that need to be washed before the baby can use them/wear them. I'm not sure if I was actually nesting, which they say is a good sign that labor is coming, or if I was just bored and needed something to do.

My first Sunday with no studying and of course there are no good movies on TBS.

Friday, November 07, 2008

Day 3 of boards

I'm done!! For now at least. I really am not feeling like I passed, but there's nothing I can do about that now. I will find out my scores in 3-4 weeks and if I need to, I will retake the exam. So until then I am going to enjoy not studying and hopefully have this baby soon!

Thursday, November 06, 2008

Wednesday, November 05, 2008

Day 1 of boards

Well I knew today's exam was suppose to be a little easier than the NBDE boards but I think I may have set a record. I read all my questions thoroughly, thought a little about the ones I didn't know and was still finished in 2 hours, we had 6 to take the exam. So we'll see.

Tomorrow will be the longest day, 400 questions, and more challenging than todays.

Last night I had more nightmares and anxiety about going into labor than about taking these exams. Just two more days and then I can have this baby. I'm still hoping that three days of test taking is enough to put me into labor.